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did she really say "I'm supposed to cook with him?" BONUS: It's not just our vows, it's a transcript of the ceremony! Read on, MacDuff. F: As family and friends of Amie and Brian, we gave gathered to celebrate and support with love and acceptance, their decision to live together as man and wife. Who presents Brian to be married? Sandy: I do. F: Who presents Amie to be married? Mike: I do. F: Will you, Brian, be truly a partner in marriage, accepting Amie as your wife? Will you be there when she needs you to talk to, to listen, to help and reassure her; to challenge her, to shield her with your arms? Will you accept her day after day? Will you reach out to hold her hand awake, asleep, at birth time, at crying time, at dying time, Will you be strong when she is weak, share her interests, share your interests with her, give her freedom to be herself? Will you let her be a girl as well as a woman, Will you be caring when life is too much for one person to face alone? Will you remember when life seems so daily to bring her a flower, to laugh with tenderness, to be often gentle, to walk in the meadow with her, to share a joy and a suffering, to tell her that her beauty endures? Will you be responsible to her as to yourself through all the experiences of your common life? B: Absolutely! F: Will you, Amie, be truly a partner in marriage, accepting Brian as your husband? Will you provide comfort when he is downcast, encouragement when he falters in life, restfulness when he is tired, praise for his accomplishments, appreciation when he does something just for you? Will you cook WITH him, love your children, keep your home filled with beauty, love and comfort? Will you welcome his friends, share his interests, share your interests with him, give freedom to be himself, let him be a boy as well as a man? Will you accept him day after day? Will you be strong when he is weak, caring when life is too much to face alone? Will you reach out to hold his hand awake, asleep, at birth time, at crying time, at dying time? Will you remember when life seems so daily to look pretty for him, to spare him from ill humor, to challenge him, to walk in the meadow with him, to tell him that you love him more with each passing day? A: I will. F: The wedding ring is an outward and visible sign of an inward and spiritual grace, symbolizing a bond of love and signifying to unite Brian and Amie in Holy Matrimony. (Brian forks over the ring and repeats:) B: In token and in pledge of our constant faith and abiding love, with this ring, I become your husband. F: Those whom God has joined together, let no man put asunder, Brian and Amie your promise to each other is that during all the years of your lives together, you will remember the things you found important during your earliest encounter, that you promise to grow and let your marriage grow; to be always flexible and imaginative in the give and take of living together; to consider yourselves as human beings with your own direction, and your own inner lives; to consider marriage as a living relationship sanctified by God, to care for each other as for yourself, to be kind, gentle, reverent, to always remember what your real values are, faith, hope and love, and that the greatest of these is love. By the authority vested unto me, I declare that Brian and Amie are now husband and wife, according to the ordinance of God and the laws of this State. The Lord Bless you and keep you; the Lord make His grace to shine upon you and be gracious unto you and give you peace, both now and the life everlasting. *pause* B: Can I kiss her now? |
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